I am a very analytical person. I over think everything. There are no simple questions in my mind because every decision has multiple moving parts. Who will be affected by my decision? Whose feelings might be hurt? Who might I disappoint? Will this be a decision I regret? From, “Where do you want to eat?” to “Should I spend money here…or here?” I can easily get stressed out by it all.
Let me take this another direction. I find myself increasingly interested in the creativity of God. I believe each person has the opportunity to learn exactly what they need to in whatever situation they find themselves in. Whether a person is single, married, a mother, unable to have children or a combination, God can use any situation to teach a needed lesson. One of my many lessons from God is through motherhood. For me, life has taken on a whole new perspective with the addition of a single life.
How does this all tie in together? When I look at my daughter, I cannot be incapacitated by fear of making decisions. She is depending on me to teach her, guide her, and protect her. Of course, I am not alone in this as I have a wonderful husband who is the best dad I could have asked for for my child (and future children). However, I am with my daughter every single day. I must make decisions. Should I punish her? How should I punish her? Should I let her do this? Should I say no? These are not decisions I can stress over every single time. I have to make them. Sometimes I have to make them quickly. So how am I supposed to make decisions that best meet the needs of my daughter?
While I do not have all the answers, I’ve learned quickly that I cannot seek wisdom from the Lord at the last minute. If I am to be the best mother for my daughter I have to seek wisdom from the Lord on a daily basis. It cannot be a last minute lifeline. Wisdom and the ability to utilize wisdom must be sought after every single day; multiple times a day. If I am in constant communication with Christ and seeking after Him with each breath, those decisions come a lot quicker with more confidence.
Unfortunately knowing the solution and constantly practicing the solution are often two different stories. I still freak out when it comes to making decisions, but because of God’s grace and His continuous desire to draw me closer to Him, I am learning. Each day brings new challenges and with each challenge I learn even more. I learn what works and I learn what doesn’t work. I mess up daily but I know if I seek after the Lord, He will work everything out to His glory. His grace is sufficient.
Rebecca is first and foremost a follower of Jesus Christ with her husband and daughter coming close behind. She has a degree in Marriage and Family Counseling but loves that she is able to be a stay at home mom as well as a consultant with Thirty-One Gifts where she truly get to pick her own working hours. She enjoys DIY projects and try them as often as time and money allow. When not mothering and cleaning up the house, she loves to read anything from current fiction to classic novels with a little history added to the mix.
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This post is linked with thanks to:
Works for Me Wednesday
Women in the Word Wednesday
Living Well Wednesday
Unwrapping His Promises
God Bumps and God-Incidences
Encourage One Another Wednesday
Walk with Him Wednesday